I hate how people act like having sex while not sober is the worst thing in the world
I mean, sure it’s nasty if there’s a person who doesn’t want to involved. But that’s nasty, intoxicated or not.
"If they’re drunk they cannot consent." Is a phrase often seen in anti-rape posters and campaigns. BUT OH, HELL WITH IT. This dictates that my feelings, my thoughts and my opinions over this do not matter - unless I choose to say no. Then it’s all that matters. Excuse you, but I am perfectly capable of making my own decisions considering my life and my body, even after a few beers. Or even after a few more. Or after a joint. If you are not, you shouldn’t drink and you most definitely shouldn’t smoke.
Not saying that taking advance of the drunk chick or the drunk guy isn’t wrong, but c’mon. SEX CAN BE AND OFTEN IS TOTALLY PURELY CONSENSUAL EVEN AFTER GETTING SHIT FAZED WITH BOOZE. And if a person sleeps with someone while being drunk or high, that doesn’t mean that they’re automatically being taken advantage of. There’s a really big chance they’re just enjoying themselves and having fun. Also, this doesn’t make them sluts. It’s good to acknowledge the negative stuff BUT IT ANNOYS THE SHIT OUT OF ME WHEN PEOPLE FORGET EVERYTHING ELSE.